Evidence
What to Text Your Ex About the Dog (and What Not to Send)
Every text you send can end up in front of a judge or mediator. Write with that in mind.
A Sample First Message
"Hi. As you know, I adopted Max in 2021 and have handled his vet care since. Please return him by Saturday at 5 p.m. I can pick him up at the park on Main St., or tell me a time that works. Thanks."
A Sample Follow-Up
"I haven't heard back about returning Max. Please let me know by Wednesday how you'd like to arrange it. If we can't agree, I'll need to look at other options."
Don't Send
- Threats to take the dog or report false claims.
- Insults or messages about unrelated relationship issues.
- Offers to trade the dog for something else you're arguing about.
- Messages late at night or in rapid bursts.
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